小王和女朋友吵架了。
晚上,小王给她发消息,他说:“对不起,我不该凶你。”女朋友看了他的消息,只回:“没事。”小王很高兴,以为真的没事了。
第二天,他看到女朋友的朋友圈写着:“有些人以为一句对不起就没事了。”
小王到现在还不明白为什么女朋友还在生气。
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Usage of 以为
Meaning:
- It means to think / to believe (but actually wrong).
- It expresses a misunderstanding — when someone thought something was true, but it wasn’t.
Context:
- Used to describe a person’s wrong assumption or belief.
- Often appears with contrastive results, such as “可是……”, “结果……”, or “后来才知道……”。
Examples:
- 我以为今天是星期天,结果公司没放假。
- I thought today was Sunday, but the company didn’t have a holiday.
- 小王以为女朋友不生气了,其实她还在生气。
- Xiao Wang thought his girlfriend wasn’t angry anymore, but she still was.
- 我以为你不来了,所以我先走了。
- I thought you weren’t coming, so I left first.
Usage of 还
Meaning:
- “还” means still / yet / also, showing that an action or state continues.
Context:
- Used to indicate something has not changed or continues to exist.
- It can also mean even more or additionally in some contexts (e.g. “还不错”、“还可以”).
Examples:
- 她现在还在生气。
- She is still angry now.
- 我还没吃饭。
- I still haven’t eaten yet.
- 这家店的蛋糕还不错。
- The cake in this shop is pretty good.
Usage of 着
Meaning:
- “着” is a particle used after a verb to indicate a continuous or ongoing state (similar to “-ing” in English).
Context:
- It often appears in descriptions of actions happening at the same time or continuing over a period of time.
Examples:
- 她笑着说:“没事。”
- She said with a smile, “It’s fine.”
- 小王看着手机,不知道该说什么。
- Xiao Wang looked at his phone, not knowing what to say.
- 他们坐着聊天,很开心。
- They sat chatting happily.
Pinyin
Xiǎo Wáng hé nǚ péngyǒu chǎojià le.
Wǎnshang, Xiǎo Wáng gěi tā fā xiāoxī, tā shuō: “Duìbuqǐ, wǒ bù gāi xiōng nǐ.” Nǚ péngyǒu kàn le tā de xiāoxī, zhǐ huí: “Méi shì.” Xiǎo Wáng hěn gāoxìng, yǐwéi zhēn de méi shì le.
Dì èr tiān, tā kàn dào nǚ péngyǒu de péngyǒu quān xiězhe: “Yǒu xiē rén yǐwéi yījù duìbuqǐ jiù méi shì le.”
Xiǎo Wáng dào xiànzài hái bù míngbái wèishénme nǚ péngyǒu hái zài shēngqì.
Translation
Xiao Wang had a fight with his girlfriend.
That night, he sent her a message and said, “I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have been mean to you.” His girlfriend read the message and only replied, “It’s fine.” Xiao Wang was very happy, thinking everything was really fine.
The next day, he saw his girlfriend’s social media post that said: “Some people think saying ‘sorry’ makes everything fine.”
Xiao Wang still doesn’t understand why his girlfriend is still angry.