Wǒ men我们
kě néng可能
cháng cháng常常
tīng dào听到
Zhōng guó rén中国人
shuō
bú yòng bú yòng不用不用
huì
yǐ wéi以为
duì fāng对方
zhēn de真的
bù xū yào不需要
We often hear Chinese people say “no need, no need”, and assume the other person genuinely does not want it.
Suī rán虽然
shuō
bú yòng不用
dàn shì但是
zài Zhōng wén lǐ在中文里
zhè jù huà这句话
hěn yǒu kě néng很有可能
zhǐ shì只是
kè qi客气
Although he says “no need”, in Chinese that line is very likely just politeness.
Bǐ rú比如
gěi péng you给朋友
yì píng shuǐ一瓶水
shuō
bú yòng bú yòng不用不用
For example, you hand a friend a bottle of water and he says, “No need, no need.”
kě néng可能
bú shì不是
bù xiǎng hē不想喝
zhǐ shì只是
kè qi客气
yí xià一下
It may not be that he does not want a drink — he is simply being polite.
Yǒu shí hou有时候
rén men人们
xiān
shuō
bú yòng不用
dàn shì但是
zài
yāo qǐng邀请
yí cì一次
jiù
huì
shuō
hǎo
xiè xie谢谢
Sometimes people say “no need” first, but if you offer once more they will say, “All right, thank you!”
Suǒ yǐ所以
bú yòng bú yòng不用不用
yǒu shí hou有时候
shì
zhēn de真的
bú yào不要
yǒu shí hou有时候
zhǐ shì只是
kè qi客气
So “no need, no need” sometimes really is a refusal, and sometimes is nothing more than politeness.